Marriage wasn’t always in the cards forSavannah Chrisley’s parents,ToddandJulieChrisley.

On the latest episode of her podcastUnlocked With Savannah Chrisley, the 25-year-oldChrisley Knows Beststar revealed that Julie initially refused to marry Todd after getting pregnant with the couple’s oldest childChase, now 27.

“I think of my mom in her early 20s when she got pregnant with Chase, so my older brother, who’s 14 months older than me,” Savannah shared. “My dad had just come off a divorce, he had two kids, and my mom was the preacher’s daughter in a small, one stoplight town in South Carolina — preacher’s daughter. Everyone knew everyone.”

Julie Chrisley, Savannah Chrisley, Todd Chrisley.Vivian Zink/NBC/NBCU Photo Bank via Getty

Julie Chrisley, Savannah Chrisley, Todd Chrisley

Savannah said Julie was reluctant to tie the knot following Todd’s split from ex-wife Teresa Terry, with whom hesharesdaughterLindsie Chrisleyand sonKyle Chrisley.

Savannah added that Julie played hard to get from the start of the pair’s relationship. “I’ve read parts of the book that he’s working on, and I was just sobbing, just because he talks about the first time he saw my mother, how he felt, how he would just go into the bank just to be able to see her, and she wouldn’t give him the time of day," she explained.

“She told him, she was like, ‘I’m not marrying you, just for you to make the same mistake you made with your first wife,'” Savannah continued. “He asked her twice, and she told him no. And now, look at ‘em, 27 years later.”

Julie Chrisley and Todd Chrisley attend the grand opening of E3 Chophouse Nashville on November 20, 2019.Danielle Del Valle/Getty for E3 Chophouse Nashville

NASHVILLE, TENNESSEE - NOVEMBER 20: Julie Chrisley (L) and Todd Chrisley attend the grand opening of E3 Chophouse Nashville on November 20, 2019 in Nashville, Tennessee. (Photo by Danielle Del Valle/Getty Images for E3 Chophouse Nashville)

Savannah noted that her mother’s hesitations stemmed “from getting pregnant out of wedlock” after being from a small town where her father was the preacher.

Despite her initial reservations, the couple tied the knot on May 25, 1996 and welcomed Chase shortly after their nuptials on June 1 of that year. The pair are also parents to Savannah and Chase’s younger brother, Grayson, 17.

Chase Chrisley, Grayson Chrisley, Julie Chrisley, Todd Chrisley, Chloe Chrisley, Savannah Chrisley, Faye Chrisley.Dennis Leupold/USA Network/NBCU Photo Bank/NBCUniversal

Chase Chrisley, Grayson Chrisley, Julie Chrisley, Todd Chrisley, Chloe Chrisley, Savannah Chrisley, Faye Chrisley

The reality star previously sharedher own doubtsabout tying the knot on an episode ofUnlocked.

“It’s so hard because in the south, too, you experience this like [perspective of], ‘You should be married. You should have kids,'” she said. “And I say the thought of marriage scares me more than kids.”

“With marriage, it’s kind of like you’re giving over a part of yourself to someone, so they have the ability to hurt you. It’s a weird thing I’m still trying to figure out in my mind,” she noted.

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The television personality also admitted in December that she feels the need to puther life plans on holdamidToddandJulie’sprison stints.

“In my mind, I can’t move on with my life,” she told brotherChase’sfiancée Emmy MeddersonUnlocked. “Until I know that they’re going to be there, I can’t get married. I can’t have a kid. … [But I know] they’re going to eventually one day get to be a part of it.”

Todd and Julie weresentencedto a combined 19 years in prison forfinancial crimesin November 2022. Todd began his 12-year sentence at Florida’s Federal Prison Camp Pensacola in mid-January on the same day as Julie started her seven-year sentence at Federal Medical Center in Lexington, Kentucky. They’re currently inthe process of appealing their case.

source: people.com