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Hilary Rhoda

Hilary Rhodaunderstands first hand the challenges many couples face while trying to conceive, and she wants others in a similar situation to know they’re not alone.

“I was sensitive to the people out there who are trying to conceive or have experienced loss from miscarriages like I did, so I wanted to share that it wasn’t easy for us either,” Rhoda told PEOPLE.

“The last year has been quite a journey getting to this point, lots of ups & downs … butfor those trying to conceive, all I can say is just keep going,” Rhoda wrote, adding a red heart emoji and further explaining that, “trying to conceive is a mindf— and might have almost ended our marriage once or twice.”

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Hilary Rhoda

Avery, 39, opened up about the difficulties he and Rhoda faced while trying to get pregnant on his podcastNo F— Given, saying he “never thought this day would come” and that the two assumed they’d conceive easily considering they exercise daily and refrain from alcohol consumption.

In her recent conversation with PEOPLE, Rhoda revealed that she “had a dream very early on in mypregnancy that it was a boy”— and of course, she turned out to be right!

But as far as what to call their son on the way, that’s still up in the air. “We have a list of names of course but nothing narrowed down just yet,” she said.

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What Rhoda loves the most about UNIQLO, she told PEOPLE, is “that it can be a one-stop shop for all that you need. It’s made very well and always feels comfortable.”

“I love the polka dot short-sleeve midi dress from the Ines de la Fressange collection,” she shared of one of her favorite pieces from the brand’s spring/summer collection. “It’s so chic and perfect for summer, and all you have to do is throw it on with some cute sandals.”

“I also loved the cropped ankle pants from the main collection,” Rhoda added. “I’d pair that with a white ribbed tank and a cool pair of sneakers.”

source: people.com